On Saturday evening right before dinner I was cleaning up and was about to toss out Kai's "cursive book". It had come home in his backpack and was pretty much empty. I figured it was one of those in-class assignments he hadn't finished, but I knew they had already had their cursive test so I figured it wasn't a big deal. Kai saw me moving it and casually mentioned that it was "due on Monday". Umm....come again? It turns out that the rest of the class had pretty much completed the book but that Kai was SOOOO far behind. There were 72 pages in the book. Kai had completed no more than 12. In fact, he hadn't been allowed to take his cursive test because he wasn't done with the book. And he was now at the point where it had to be done by Monday or he would begin losing recess. I was angry that this was the first I was hearing of the situation. His teacher had not sent any communication home and hadn't even sent the book home until Thanksgiving break. So, in other words he had been assigned 60 pages of homework for the break and I had never been told. Poor Kai. (Yes, he is partly to blame for the whole mess, too, but the teacher's request was unreasonable in my opinion.) Kai diligently began working on Saturday night. And then he had to take a break when we had friends come over for dessert and some play time. And then on Sunday after church Kai sat at the kitchen table and worked and worked and worked. He was at the table from 1 pm to after 10pm doing cursive. His hand hurt and he was tired. He went to bed with just a few pages left. The next morning he managed to spend a good half hour or so finishing it all up and then he was off to school. I should have felt relieved but there was nothing but a pit in my stomach. The teacher and I have exchanged emails and talked about the situation. I think I handled it well and I hope we have a system in place to keep this from happening again. Yikes! |