Saturday, January 24, 2015

New Year's

Most would assume that this post will be about the fun we had on New Year's Eve and how we stayed up until midnight.  But that's not the case.  For New Year's Eve this year Finn was scheduled to have his g-tube placed at Children's Hosptial in Aurora (outside of Denver).  That morning we dropped Kai and Bree off with family friends and Reid and I headed to Denver to be with Finn.  Reid took Finn up early for his registration time and I followed about an hour behind after I got the other two settled.  I got there not long after Finn had been taken back to the pre-op area and found him playing on the iPad and watching new episodes of Paw Patrol to keep him distracted.



For those who have never done the surgery with a kid thing, what normally happens is that you are back in this room and a parade of people come through.  The nurses take his full health history and then the surgeon comes in as well as the anesthesiologist.  Since Children's is a teaching hospital, we had all of those people plus the respective fellows in each of those areas.  We told everyone that came in about how poorly Finn has woken up from anesthesia before.  We described how he wakes very suddenly and is very angry and has pulled out his lines in the past.  Anyone that would listen, we told.  I'm grateful that the anesthesiology fellow took me very seriously and their team worked together to come up with anything they could think of to make this experience different.  Finn was very nervous and upset about the whole thing and so they brought in a dose of Versed (an anti-anxiety) for him but said that if it was too hard to get it in him to not worry.  Well, we took the iPad and Reid promised Finn something new to see if he would take his "giggle juice".  The nurses were very impressed as the medicine went right in and then Finn went right back to his iPad.  We got a lot of compliments, I guess on our ability to manipulate our child.  We know what works!  Anyway, getting that Versed was awesome.  We then had a child life specialist come in and give Finn a stuffed sheep with a g-tube (his new g-tube buddy), which Finn later named Lightning.  The child life specialist also let Finn practice smelling the flavor of his choice in the anesthesia mask.  What seems like such a small thing turned out to be fantastic for him.  He chose Skittles flavor and then Reid, Finn, and I took turns smelling the mask.  When it was time to go back to the OR I gowned up and went with Finn.  He was starting to seem a bit tired by this point (from the Versed) but he still didn't want to lay down on the table.  The anesthesiology team allowed him to sit up while resting against the main fellow and he played Lego Star Wars on the iPad while breathing through the sleepy mask right up until he fell asleep.  At that point we laid him down and I kissed him goodbye and went back out to the waiting room with Reid.

The surgery went well and relatively quickly (about an hour I think).  Then they came back to get us before Finn woke up.  Normally they don't allow this as the kids are still in the "danger zone" but because of our past experiences they brought us back to be there when he first woke up.  They told us that they gave him everything they could to help this go better.  And thankfully, it worked!  Finn didn't startle awake.  In fact, he woke up for a second, sat up, and then fell right back to sleep.  After an hour we decided to rub a cold wash cloth on his face to wake him up.  Such a different experience than the past!  He woke up groggy but pleasant.  And then we were taken up to his room (room 902) which is where we stayed for the next two nights.
Texting pictures to Kai and Bree while they were at Sister Horton's house

Since it was New Year's Eve we were bombarded as soon as we hit the floor.  The home health care company was waiting in our room for us to give us the training on using the equipment (pump, tubes, etc).  And then there was a nearly one hour training video that the nurse wanted us to watch.  Reid watched that in a separate room before he left for the night to go get the other kids.  I watched the video the next day as well as had training on changing the dressing, cleaning the tube site, and did trial runs of night feedings.  We kept Finn on a pain medication schedule and he was pleasant and good the whole time.  I was really, really proud of him.  I was also very thankful for the sweet older gentleman volunteer who came in on New Year's Day to run the book cart to all of the kids.  Finn got several new books to keep (since he was in isolation he couldn't give them back because of germs, etc.) and some crayons for a coloring book.  We also had this fantastic nurse named Amy.  In the course of chatting I found out she was from Arizona and did gymnastics as a kid.  I mentioned I was a gymnast, too, and then she saw my BYU sweatshirt and asked if I had been a BYU gymnast.  Then she started asking me if I knew some people and it turns out that she knew about a half dozen of my BYU teammates (the Arizona girls).  She had been their teammate in high school.  It was so fun!  What a small world!

New Year's day was pretty slow for us.  Finn played a lot of iPad and we watched TV and the Lego Movie.  Finn also got a new Paw Patrol board game from Kai which we played together as well.  We read books and colored and just sat there waiting for the day to pass.  He wasn't doing IVs or anything so really he wasn't attached to any wires, just sitting in his bed waiting for night to come so we could do another night feed.  It was quiet in the hospital because of the holiday and the day seemed long.  We Facetimed with Reid and Bree at one point which was nice, until Bree started to cry when she had to say goodbye.  That was hard.
Bree playing with daddy who texted us this picture

Playing Paw Patrol with mommy

Our only bumps during our stay was when a fellow decided to tell our nurse and the RT that Finn "had" to try the vest before he went home.  Our CF doctor has specifically told me the day before that we could take a week off of vest treatments and replace it with acapella treatments (a different airway clearance device that involves blowing into a tube that vibrates your lungs from the inside).  But when the doctors are away for the holidays the fellows are in charge.  I hesitated at first and then decided to ask the nurse to send the fellow in so I could talk to her about it.  She got pretty defensive about it when the conversation first started, but eventually she understood that I wasn't trying to be mean or aggressive, I just didn't agree.  We came to an amicable conclusion and she went on her way.  Finn didn't have to do his vest.....thank goodness!  The second bump came our last night there when we were to run his first full night feed.  The dietician had orders for an 8 hour feed with enzyme doses at the start and end.  Well, Finn sleeps 10-11 hours a night and he was tired from not sleeping well in the hospital.  We were going to start the feed at 10pm, but the nurse didn't come in until 11:15pm and Finn was sound asleep.  We tried to wake him up to take his enzymes but he didn't want to (go figure, who wants to "eat" when they are sleeping) and put up a pretty big fight.  I eventually told the nurse it wasn't going to happen and so she went out to give the doctor a call.  The doctor told her to run the feed anyway without the enzymes (he had to tolerate the feed that night if we wanted to go home the next day) so we did.  He did take his enzymes in the morning when the feed was done, but that is much easier when you are awake.  Because of that incident we changed his feeding schedule to a 10 hour feed.  Much easier for all of us!

After 2 nights in the hospital we were ready to go home.  I had our stuff packed and ready to roll before the hospital could get everything together.  The home health care company was the one piece of the puzzle that slowed us down the most because we needed a delivery of pumps, tape, gauze, IV  pole, feeding bags, formula, etc.  The delivery man pulled up to the parking lot right as I was pulling out.  We met in the parking lot and got our stuff right in the car and then went on our way.  We were happy to be heading home and to be done with our stay.  That being said, about a week ago Finn said, "I wish I could go back to the hospital.  It was fun!"  Ummmm.....ok.  I am grateful to the anesthesia team who made our stay that much fun.  Seriously, our best stay ever!
Hiding near the clothes hamper in the hospital ready to go home.  

All loaded in the wagon ready to go, just waiting on home health care

A Family Outing

Earlier this year we got a family membership to the Denver Museum of Nature and Science.  We have had several days that we had planned on going up, but had other things come up, so we decided to take advantage of Reid's time off of work and the Christmas break to make the trip.  I didn't get too many pictures because my phone died in the middle of the day (I need to take it in to get fixed!) but we do have a few shots of the day.  We ended up splitting up after lunch so Finn could play in the kids' Discovery Center and Kai went off with Reid to see the Gems and the Space Zone.  We still have two visitor tickets so if anyone wants to come to the museum with us, let us know!

Since we always end up at the Health exhibit last, we decided to start there this time.  The kids loved this station where you could sprint across a small area and it would track you and tell you how fast you ran and how big your stride was, etc.  The tiny person at the front of this screen (running 2.7 MPH) is Bree. She really got a kick out of running across the area like the big kids!

There was also an area where you could do lab experiments.  This was one where you could see your check cells.  Finn started doing it but eventually freaked out and decided he didn't want anything to do with it.  So Reid and Kai stayed behind and played scientist.  We discovered it's good to go to this area early because this lab area is pretty open and you can do a few experiments.


check cells

This was one about food I think

Bree playing in the kids' discovery zone

She insisted on doing it all herself
I believe Reid was telling Kai to look like he was holding it, but clearly he didn't understand the instructions

Finn with a whale skeleton

Our scuba divers

Finn with a Fin Whale

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Christmas 2014

Going in to Christmas our house had certainly had some eventful days health wise.  The last week of school, on Monday the 15th, Kai got off the bus just fine.  And then by dinner time he had spiked a fever of 103.4.  The next day I dropped Finn off at school and found out that we had confirmed cases of Influenza A in Finn's classroom and in a 2nd grade classroom across the hall from Kai.  So, I took Kai to the pediatrician for a flu test.  It was thankfully negative.  His fever had broken and after 24-hours fever free he went back to school with nothing more than a standard cough.  Thank goodness (because I still had those Christmas parties to run!).  In the midst of that week I had one of those complete mommy-fail moments and ended up with Bree in the ER just to make sure that she didn't have a serious injury.  She didn't--thank goodness again.  And then about midnight on Christmas Eve Bree woke up with her left eye nearly swollen shut.  In the morning, I rushed to get her to the pediatrician and she was diagnosed with pink eye and an ear infection.  Poor thing!  I was glad we got in before Christmas.

And I was glad that I had gotten our Christmas dinner in the crock pot that morning.  We had our ham, potatoes, rolls, and more that evening.  The kids actually ate some of it.  And Kai just loves pumpkin pie, so he enjoyed dessert as well. We read the Christmas story from the Bible and then the kids opened their Christmas Eve presents--jammies and a new ornament for their tree.  Kai got a personalized astronaut, Bree got a sock monkey, and Finn got a little boy holding an iPhone.  After leaving out cookies and milk everyone was ready to head to bed.  What a wonderful Christmas Eve!

Opening his jammies

His new ornament (sorry the lighting is off)

Milk and cookies for Santa and all ready for bed in their new jammies
  Christmas Day was a nice slow morning.  Our kids don't get up until 7am, not even on Christmas.  While we looked at stockings and slowly started opening gifts, I put some cinnamon rolls in the oven.
Opening Bree's present from Santa--a stroller for her dolls

Looking at the book his Great Grandma sent him.  He is wearing his Lego headlamp he got in his stocking.

Kai got a GeoSafari talking globe

Bree decided her stroller wasn't just for dolls.  She kept saying "ride!"

What a beautiful Christmas scene!

Kai got a rock collection and Finn got Domino Rally.

The boys were super excited for me to open their present.  They got me socks!

Bree got a magnetic drawing pad, which has been a huge hit.  She loves to draw and color.  (She's wearing two of my new socks in this picture.)

Finn getting ready to open a present from his teachers at school.

Bree opening another gift


This Kinetic sand has been a big hit with Finn and Bree, too.

Bree didn't need anything else.....she just kept drawing!

Finn's gift from his preschool teachers

Kai opening his gift from Santa

A book about Rocks and Minerals from Santa to go with the rock collection.  Kai says he is going to be a geologist.

Kai got a crystal growing kit


Bree got these stacking bowls that she had played with at Grammy and Papa's.  She really likes them.
 It took us several hours to open all of our Christmas gifts.  And then we got our traditional Chinese take out for lunch that afternoon.  It was a beautiful Christmas with lots of family time.  Just the way we like it!


December up until Christmas Eve

In an effort to get current, this will be a photo dump.  December really was a hodge podge of things.  Parties, fun at home, etc.  Other than Christmas, there was no one real event of the month, but rather just a lot of fun family time, listening to Christmas music, and enjoying the season.

Bree loves to take Kai to the bus stop.  She would really love to go to school.  Here she put on Kai's bus pass (the lanyard), Finn's coat and backpack.  She was all ready!

Finn still loves to help in the kitchen.  His class worked together on a small recipe at school and they used plastic knives to cut some tomatoes (I think it was tomatoes) and he was convinced that they had taught he everything he needed to know about cutting.  This had made me really nervous!

I took a picture of Finn and Bree insisted I take a picture of her.  She's eating a string cheese and waiting for us to finish cooking dinner.

Finn with a sharp knife slicing green onions

Poor Finn was such a champ this day (December 5th)!  His doctors had really been pushing for him to have a Nissen Fundoplication done, especially in conjunction with a G-tube.  I have been convinced for a while that reflux isn't his issue and so instead of a big surgery I requested we have a PH probe performed.  The scheduler at the hospital made this procedure sound like it wasn't a big deal (despite his doctors not feeling that we would be able to get him to do this), so I went in utterly unprepared.  This was pretty traumatic for both of us.  This tube had to go through his nose and placed correctly near his stomach.  He screamed quite a bit and said it hurt.  I can't even imagine.  I'm glad it's all over with.  The results were that he has "no significant reflux", so score some points for me!  But poor kid.  He wore this for 24 hours and then we had to go back to the hospital to get it out.

After getting out his PH probe on December 6th, we finished Christmas decorating with putting up the ornaments on the tree.

Bree is becoming an electronics addict like her brothers.  Boo!  :(

That night we went to the Live Nativity that our stake puts on every year.  It's a BIG, beautiful event.  Inside the building, the gym is decorated to the max and they display hundreds of nativity scenes from around the world.  In the primary room they had ones the kids could play with and a dress up area.  Finn dressed up and wanted a picture.

We made homemade playdough on the 8th and had some good fun.

On Tuesday the 9th we had the sister missionaries over for dinner.  I told them how Kai had this super loose tooth and I had him wiggle it for them.  They started telling him how loose it was and that it needed to come out.  He seemed overwhelmed with all the attention and did not want his tooth to fall out.  While we were distracted Kai pushed his tooth with his tongue and a second later I turned back to look at him and he was holding his tooth in his hand.  After he got over the initial shock/trauma of his first tooth falling out, he seemed to be ok with it.  (There was some crying and alone time in his room and then his dad went to talk him through it.)

Bree decided the freezing cold winter was a good time to practice taking her clothes off and on.  On the 11th, she took her shirt off and fell asleep for her nap with it in her hands.
We had our ward Christmas party on Friday the 12th and Finn was an angel for one of the primary's songs and Kai was a shephard.  They both had fun "playing" their roles and not singing.  (See Finn on the left side of this picture distracting "Joseph".)

On Saturday the 13th the boys and I dipped marshmallows for our friends again.  I made some small plates of goodies for local friends again this year and did the marshmallows like last year because they are just so quick and simple and super yummy.  We ended up eating most of this first batch and had to do it again for our goodie plates!



Ready for church on the 14th
Finn's class winter party on the 18th.  This was a crazy day.  I dropped Finn off at school that morning to find out that the class room mom had the flu and wasn't coming.  The teacher said that she had heard I was going to do the party!  I am Kai's room mom and his party was at 12:40 that day and I still had something I needed to pick up for his class.  Finn's party was to be at 11am.  So, I took off for the Springs to pick up the last minute item, and then ran back to school to see what we had for Finn's party.  After seeing what we needed I ran back out to Walmart to pick up last minute things and get Kai a Lunchable for lunch (I didn't have time to pack him one that morning) and then got back to school at 11am.  With all of the other preschool parents, Finn's class party went off without a hitch.  It was great.  Then I ran down to Kai's classroom and dropped everything off and started setting up.  I grabbed Finn and Bree and ran them home to meet the babysitter.  Put them at the table with some lunch and ran back to school in time for Kai's party.  Kai's party was AWESOME!  Clearly I'm biased as I planned it, but it was a lot of fun and I'm so glad I get the chance to be his room mom.  Anyway, in this picture Finn is standing right in front of everyone for their songs that they performed for the parents.  His teacher has told me they are having problems with Finn figuring out where to be in line, etc and this is a prime example.  He stood and walked around in front of everyone, at times with his hands in his pants.  He didn't even really sing.  Ahhhh........fun times!

Bree loves dress up and with two older brothers these are the kinds of costumes she gets to wear!  She loves it!  (December 19th)

December 20th--Bree decided that she can now put on her pants all by herself.  Don't even try to help her, she will get very angry.  I love this girl, but she is SUPER independent.  She even rocks herself to sleep now.  I'm not allowed in the chair.  My place is on the floor singing her songs while she rocks by herself.  Silly girl!